Dear HCN, I love optimists, I really do. I’m one myself. I’m especially fond of the quintessential pie-in-the-sky optimists like Dyan Zaslowsky, who recommends just saying “no” to whatever hot spot is being loved to death in your neighborhood (HCN, 9/16/96). Sometimes it’s hard to tell whether someone is starry-eyed, or just loves the sound […]